Move on

It's easy to say move on when we are not on the losing side.

"Everything is for the best. God has a better plan for you."

 Even the ones on the loosing side know it at their heart. But they still foolishly wait for some miracle to happen. And it is then they hear these words from their well wisher. 

Every lose is lose. We tell the ones in pain to move on as we can no longer watch their tears and agony. Still we advise cause we are helpless and don't know any other means to console them. Trust me you are pouring oil in fire and that's  never gonna help them or console them inturn dig scars so deep in them.  We tell it to their face when all they need was someone to help and not someone to console. 

They may be building up hopes to stand.  The very word "move on" blows out all the hope and hits them like a storm.  We never know the depths of their hopes or how long they have been waiting and struggling like a fool.  The "move on" tortures them to death. Maybe we too have moved on in some point of our lives and when we see someone holding on to fake hopes, we cannot stand it cause we know they are going to be screwed. So we tell them "move on" . Move on or you will be ruined.

But I'll tell rather than advising them to move on, it's better if you could find a way to help them out.  Because sometimes all they need would be a hand of help and not a hand to wipe off their tears.